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Alright, so with all the hate going on lately, I think we need to counteract that hate and show lots of love for our Moose. So please, reblog this if you love Jared Padalecki! I want to tell him know how many notes this gets when I see him in September! <3 image

If this doesn’t get more notes I’m going to sick a hellhound on your asses……….(maybe….possibly…..or I might just keep it as a pet, idk)
Wednesday, July 30, 2014 with 2,043 notes
#spn #supernatural #jared #jared padalecki #love for jared #we love moose #moose #endless moose love #support jared

So I was going to reblog my shipping post earlier that had the following comment:

"This had nothing to do with ships or romance. He pulled that crap about why he didn’t want women on the show. I love Jared, but no. That’s not cool. Women aren’t there just to be a romantic interest."

But the reblog button wasn’t showing for some reason so……here goes:

*ahem*

I’m sorry but did you forget that time Jared encouraged his (now ex) fiance Sandra to guest star on the show? (Where she DIDN’T play a romantic interest)

Did you forget that it was Jared and Jensen that encouraged Paris Hilton to guest star on the show? (Where she DIDN’T play a romantic interest)

Did you forget that it was Jared who encouraged his WIFE to come back and guest star on the show, regardless that she knew about the hate she was getting? Not to mention she just didn’t want to play a real-life version of herself on the show but when he explained that it was like a parody version than she finally agreed because that would mean she could play a comedic role for a change? (Where the episode DIDN’T revolve around their relationship but there was IN FACT a relationship because she was playing his WIFE)

Did you forget that Jared is always supportive of the female cast-members of this show?

Did you forget that Jared adores the female cast members of this show?

Because the cast/crew are like family, and they treat each other with respect and support each other unconditionally?

Oh yeah he’s anti-women alright, he hates them so much he doesn’t even want his own WIFE on the show.

He hates women so much he refuses to be friends with his ex-fiance Sandra.

He hates women so much he doesn’t even REMOTELY think of Danneel as a sister.

I’m guessing you just spaced out for the entire series right?

Wednesday, July 30, 2014 with 17 notes
#jared #jared padalecki #stop the hate #no more jared hate #it's ridiculous #spn #supernatural
lilith-rising-demon said: I totally agree with your post about Nerd HQ and jared's answer. However, I think people were less annoyed by what Jared said, than what he didn't say. Personally I angered by the Nerd HQ supervisor who also gave her two cents. Her opinion really rubbed my inner feminist the wrong way. Jared didn't correct her, and since ppl are always looking for someone to blame, they overreacted and unrightfully blamed Jared, who was trying to answer the question without being disrespectful to anyone.

Not to hate on the feminist crowd but I feel that sometimes the guys are having to walk on egg shells around any feminist-oriented questions for fear of something being taken out of context, or saying something in a way that doesn’t sit well with some fans, I hate that they have that constant pressure when answering questions, it must be so frustrating to worry about making someone mad when really all you’re trying to do is support them. I feel for these guys, I really do.

What was the supervisor’s answer? I didn’t hear that one.

superwholockianintheshire said: Dude thanks for not hating on Jared for what he said in the interview - I felt like the only one there for a while and i just love that man!! <3 I had the feeling he was just glad not to have film romance scenes with other women when he's so happily married to Genevieve - so yeah, basically you're awesome, and I love your blog!^^ I hope your day is beautiful!

I could never hate on Jared, he’s too precious for this world and I love him to death and then some lol

Anonymous said: Although I do agree with your shipping post, supernatural did develop for more than the brother's story, otherwise Cas and Crowley would long be dead.

Very true. I will admit that the story does go beyond the brotherly aspects at this point, they’ve incorporated so many other stories as well (Bobby’s, Lisa’s, etc).

To me it’s always going to go back to Sam and Dean, but overall it’s not just them, it’s more of a “survival of the supernatural” kind of story, it just focuses on them the most.

lycorine:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print. 
Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

I will never read this book. How awful! 

lycorine:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada

Use, redistribute, print. 

Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex

it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine

i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me

just

fucking

drop

some fucking

knowledge on you right now.

Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.

So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.

Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.

Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.

Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.

Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

I will never read this book. How awful! 

In response to the accusations that Jared’s response was “misogynistic”, here’s my two-cents.

I’m assuming that “conclusion” was a response to what he was saying in the above GIF (among other things) so let me boil this down:

So the question was: “I wanted to ask what if feels like when you work with female actors, and if it adds, like, a different dynamic to - like, on set. Like, if it adds a different dynamic on set.”

Now I’m assuming that some of you fans heard the part of his response you see in the above GIF and suddenly went into a rabid feminist mode with tunnel vision and decided to jump to conclusions.

Jared is NOT being misogynistic. How can he be? He’s too sweet and compassionate to be hateful towards women, in fact he is a HUGE supporter of women.

What he means by “I don’t think it makes it too different” is that this show does NOT revolve around gender (or romance), so they’re not going to create a huge shift in the storyline simply because the character is female.

Gender does not define the show, just like romance doesn’t define the show.

It wouldn’t make a difference to add on female characters because being female isn’t a huge issue. Supernatural is a GENDER-NEUTRAL show, they don’t focus on whether or not a character’s gender identity is important. It’s not.

This show has male AND female hunters, male AND female demons, male AND female angels, male AND female monsters.

There have been COUNTLESS characters that fall under each category, so to say that this show represents gender equality is putting it mildly.

If you want the writers to act like every female character is God’s gift to the Earth, and that the boys should worship the ground she walks on, and everything revolves around HER, than you’re missing the point of the whole show.

Now on to the next part of my rant.

The second GIF reflects on the majority of his response, which is that women are often perceived as being present simply to add to some romantic storyline. Basically he’s saying that it happens a lot in the media, that it can be easy to slip into that routine when a female character is present, but that "there needs to be a show that doesn’t deal with romance. That’s why you have Supernatural, to deal with all the other parts."

He’s reminding everyone that this show exists to focus on the other aspects of life OUTSIDE of romance: humanity, friendship, family, trust, betrayal, deceit, darkness, and so on.

He’s saying that ALL of the characters don’t exist for romance, that ALL of the characters represent all other aspects of life like the ones I just listed.

Both the male AND female characters in this show have brought they’re own struggles and they’re own triumphs to the table.

Don’t try to trivialize Supernatural to be about one gender, which it isn’t.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014 with 165 notes
#spn #supernatural #jared padalecki #sam winchester

twinkjared:

[x]: Because people were too lazy to watch the video, but instead, took [x] at face value.

For those of you that are bitching about what Jared said, here’s a GIF-set of EVERYTHING he said, because I’m assuming you didn’t watch the whole thing.

I’ll bottom-line his response or you: “It’s easy to fall into a romantic storyline when female cast-members are involved, but WE don’t have to worry about that, we make it about something ELSE.”

He’s not trying to “simplify” female characters to pawns for a romance novel, he’s simply saying that while that usually happens with female characters in the media THAT’S NOT WHAT THEY’RE GOING FOR, THEY GO FOR OTHER CONCEPTS THAN ROMANCE.

He’s actually praising women here if  you look closely enough, he’s reminding everyone that women are more than pawns for romance.

Remember Charlie? The badass lesbian? Not only did they flawlessly represent an LGBTQ character but they made her a total badass that DIDN’T revolve around a significant other.

Remember Bela? She may have had dream-sex with Sam but her part in the show did NOT revolve around getting with one of the boys, she still kicked ass and took names.

Remember Kali? She was a total badass and her plot didn’t revolve around fucking Gabriel.

Remember Ruby? She may have had sex with Sam but that was only ONE episode, and it wasn’t even a romantic relationship, they were just using each other to get off, which is PERFECTLY normal for this kind of show. To just have sex because you need it, not because you want to be with someone. I mean jfc, do you even KNOW what these boys have gone through?

Remember Mary?

Remember Sarah?

Remember Madison?

Remember Krissy?

Remember Leah?

Remember Lisa?

Remember Ava?

Remember Meg?

Remember Jo?

Remember Ellen?

Remember Jody?

Remember Dorothy?

Remember Annie?

REMEMBER WHEN THERE WAS THAT FEMALE CHARACTER THAT HAD A RELATIOSHIP BUT THE SHOW WAS FOCUSED ON THE CHARACTER AS A PERSON AND NOW A WALKING VAGINA READY FOR ACTION??

YES there have been relationships on this show, NO those relationships do not DEFINE this show, and FUCK NO is Jared saying those relationships were the sum of the worth of those characters.

So in truth, if you’re bitching about his response, than you’re only doing it because he knocked your ship off of the pedestal where it didn’t belong. You can’t ignore nine seasons of CANONONICAL PROOF that he is absolutely RIGHT. Romance is not essential to this show, and women are NOT essential to romance.

Marvel should hire the Supernatural writers for something, they’d kick ass at writing a strong female lead.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014 with 584 notes
#spn #supernatural #jared padalecki #sam winchester #sdcc #sdcc 2014 #comic con #comic con 2014

breezytaylorstevenson:

salt-and-burn-my-heart:

I love that the TVD writers tried to keep it “mysterious” about the upcoming season with a Bamon video but

Why did one of the tags have to be #ianmarryme?

I just feel like that takes away from the whole concept of getting people on the Bamon bandwagon if the only reason fans are going to tweet about it is out of lust for Ian and the desire to sit on his dick

I think they should’ve worded that differently

They should have used #IanTheBamonKing tbh

That would’ve been better, especially since it’s true, Ian LOVES Bamon <3

Tuesday, July 29, 2014 with 8 notes

I love Sammy

I adore Sammy

I worship his beautiful face

His beautiful body

His beautiful soul

His beautiful mind

His beautiful personality

I also love Jared for the same reasons

No I don’t make excuses for his bad deeds

Though I may try to get you to understand why he made/makes the choices he does

Just so you can see why I love him so much

So when you do/say something to demean him for those bad deeds

But make excuses for other characters and THEIR bad deeds

Or when you demean him for the sake of a ship

Or if you demean Jared for the sake of a ship

In fact if you demean Sam/Jared AT ALL for the sake of your own selfishness

It brings out the bitch in me

And I will unleash it onto YOU

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 11 notes
#jared padalecki #sam winchester #spn #supernatural
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deanwinchestergifs:

Apparently you can watch this entire Jensen Ackles movie on Youtube… if you have not seen Ten Inch Hero yet, watch it. It’s so amazing, and it’s awesome to see the Jensen/Danneel chemistry :)

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 170 notes

spnroxmysox29:

That when they refer to the Destihellers who basically worship the ground that Misha walks on (I love Misha! I really do, I just don’t like some of the stuff he does, and yet I can’t lose respect for him - I just can’t!) and they say “Did you drink the Kool-Aide?” or “Did you…

Seems to be the case. Not necessarily a “to the death” situation, but definitely a “to the death of sanity” kind of thing.

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 12 notes

I love that the TVD writers tried to keep it “mysterious” about the upcoming season with a Bamon video but

Why did one of the tags have to be #ianmarryme?

I just feel like that takes away from the whole concept of getting people on the Bamon bandwagon if the only reason fans are going to tweet about it is out of lust for Ian and the desire to sit on his dick

I think they should’ve worded that differently

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 8 notes
#bamon #bonnie bennett #damon salvatore #kat graham #ian somerhalder #tvd #vampire diaries
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justianjosephsomerhalder:

The Vampire Diaries Exclusive: Bonnie and Damon’s Comic-Con

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 12 notes

Let’s talk about this for a second okay?

(And yes I realize not ALL ship fandoms are part of this problem, but I’m sick of this shit so I’m using crossfire tagging method)

It should come as no surprise that Jared is getting/is going to get hate for this response. For some strange reason the rabid drama-inducing members of this fandom cannot seem to wrap their heads around the fact that romance has NOTHING to do with this show.

Supernatural is a story about two brothers and their struggle with the curse that is the everyday supernatural constantly knocking them down and destroying their lives. This show is NOT about two brothers fucking (which they’re not and never will), or an angel/human fucking (which they DIDN’T and NEVER WILL), nor is it about either one of the brothers hooking up with some girl god-knows-where.

It’s about TWO BROTHERS and their journey.

I don’t understand why the rabid/hard-headed fans won’t accept this concept. Supernatural is in the same ballpark as The Walking Dead: both shows revolve aroud survivors trying to make the best of bad situations (or an ongoing bad situation that keeps escalating) and learning to lean on each other through thick and thin.

Yes these shows experience romantic concepts, it’s hard to ignore a romantic sub-story, but notice I used the word “sub”, meaning it’s a branch-off of the original storyline. It is NOT the storyline itself.

So Jared specifically stated that this show isn’t about romance, so what? It’s TRUE.

He never said there’s never been, nor will there ever be, romantic concepts included in the storyline, just that the overall show is NOT ABOUT THOSE PARTS.

Get it through your heads that your ship DOES NOT make this show.

The journey of two brothers DOES make this show.

This isn’t rocket science people.

So stop bitching about his response. It wasn’t “dickish”, and it sure as hell wasn’t uncalled for. Jared and Co are getting tired of your shit, they’re not going to baby you, they’re not going to kiss your ass.

Get the fuck over it.

(GIFs not mine)

Monday, July 28, 2014 with 199 notes
#supernatural #spn #jared padalecki #jensen ackles #dean winchester #sam winchester #destiel #wincest #megstiel #sabriel #sastiel #jimstiel #dowley #sowley #crowstiel #crabby #bobstiel
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